Is there any body able to know how friendship should be
defined?
Is there any of us who can see how friendship finally is
capable of being created?
No body knows. Even a
professor. Somehow, they do not know how friendship can be owned. They just
think over theory.
Then, how actually we should mean a thing named friendship?
Guys, friendship is not a cheap thing. Friendship is not
easy to define. No reason is suitable to describe this. It’s just the same with
love. Many people said no word can create the reason why finally you can love
a girl or a man. No difference if we talk over two these things.
Funny, when i was faced in the situation where they thought
you can force someone to be with you because that’s your closed friend. Or,
they think we should over think about it. They're wrong for me. Why? Friendship
is not a thing like mathematic where you can finish the question by only
counting it. Can you imagine how friendship will be like if you make it as mathematic question?
For me, friendship is all about process. You can not find
your real friends if you even hard to accept each other. Short time totally
will not enough to find your real friend. Problem is like a seasoning in our
journey. Climax is like final examination of the process. Many people feel
lonely because it’s hard for them to find their real friend. Can you just
making fancy how your days look like without friends? Well, the first important
part of you social life is your family. That's right. Then, after you go out of the house,
what will you find? Your real environment, isnt it? There, you’ll find many
people. From them, God has prepared some to become you closed friend. So that,
we will not feel lonely in crowded. So that, we can find the right way when we
are wrong to make step. Because you have your real friend. The true friend will never betray you.
From my real story. In junior high school, i joined like art
club. It consists of dance, drama theater, until art of english. There, i met several
new friends. And five of us are closed each other. First, we just fell so so
since we are closed only because the quantity of meeting time and we are
matched each other. After three years being junior high school students, we
realize that space can not seperate us. Long space is like something great for
us. As it even can mae us closer, closer, and over closed. We are still able to
go hang out. We can create togetherness until now. Until we have been in
university. We expect this situatuon, but we never make it hard to pass. Belief,
solidarity, understanding, and keeping each other feeling are all keys we have
to maintain this. We always feel like home when we meet since we are absolutely
a family here.I also have two another closed friend.
Then now, in my college, i have a new family. We are all
classmates. We are 24 students. And we will be classmates till the end of the
day we are in that college. Only 6 months that we have just thrown. So many great memories we have made. Many
problems also have come forward us. But, we always believe just like i told before this part.
In a long process we need some seasonings like cooking. What’s the function of
those seasonings? Simple, to create the perfect taste right? So, i will not see
problem between us as something which is justified to broke our relation. I will
make it as part of journey before we do think that we are the real family. 24
people who have the same destiny to meet in that class. Honestly, i love all of
them not like a new members in part of my life but like the people who will be forever
family. We are one and together we can. Basicly, we are solid. Basicly, we are
the same. Basicly, we care one another. At first we met, we looked really
matched and at the fact we are matched until some problems come and go from us. But we always finish them ellegantly. Clash is only clash. Problem
is only a usual thing to have. This is the only way to score how big love we
have to maintain this togetherness not only until we finish study at that
college but till the end of our ilfe. I always pray for this. Because
we have been created as the family of PJJB2013.
So, when you have found your closed friend. Never let them
go. Never try to be apart from them. Because sooner or later you will realize
how they are really worthy for you. More friends you have, i can guarantee you will be saved in doing all steps of your life. Help from God can come forward you pass through humans. LET IT FLOW AND ENJOY ALL YOUR LIFE PROCESS.
PJJB 2013
